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Sunday, February 3, 2013

Color Run Los Angeles!

When I signed up for my first Color Run, I thought I'd be taking my 5 year old with me (you know, the one who is adventurous and not afraid of anything). Well when I showed her the video on what it was about, she chickened out and said she didn't want powder in her face. Then the 7 year old (the one who won't do ANYTHING dangerous or dirty) chimed in and said she'd go.

Of course I didn't believe her.

So the last couple weeks, I've been thinking there was no way she'd go. #1, she's not a morning person (EVER!); #2, she doesn't like wearing socks or shoes; #3, she doesn't like anything in her face... pretty much setting me up for a sleeping-in kind of day.

BUT she kept saying she really wanted to do it... so the night before, she set out all her gear and at 4:15am on Saturday, I woke her up to tell her it was time to get ready. She rubbed her eyes, moaned a little, and about 2-3 minutes later said she was getting up! WHAT?!?!?! No way!

I clumsily found my clothes and grabbed the printed directions to the LA Dodgers Stadium (of course I've never been there! I'm an Angels fan!) :) I put the jogger in the trunk, and off we went! We got there much earlier than I anticipated, so we spent about 30 minutes at the 24 hour CVS down the street. The parking lot opened at 6:30am, so we drove in and got a front row spot right by the port-a-potties (this was crucial about 1/2 way through the run).

Gracie was full of energy and excitement, ready to go at 7:00am, dancing and hopping around, wondering when we were going to run. The run started at 9:00am, so we had a lot of time! We got my registration packet (no I didn't spend $40 on one for her because she wouldn't have gone if I had!), shopped at the color store to buy her a Color Run shirt, and browsed the vendor booths. We got some free stuff and she said to me, "This is the best day ever!" At one point, we noticed one of the tires on the jogger was going flat and couldn't find anyone with a bike pump (note to self: buy a hand-held one for races!) Gracie was certain she'd be fine without the stroller, so we put it back in the trunk.

Keep in mind I never thought this girl would run with me, so I didn't buy her any good shoes to go. Trust me when I say that if I had, she wouldn't have gone. This girl is notorious for saying she's going to do things she never ends up doing. So she had on the only real "tennis shoes" she owned, hand-me-downs from a friend that I honestly didn't even know the size of or if they fit her. She insisted they did, so I believed her.

She was so positive and anxious to get going. We got up really close to the start line about 30 minutes before it was time to take off. We enjoyed the pre-race festivities, danced in the crowd, and waited for the countdown. She started getting really quiet, a sure sign she's going to shut down. Oh no, don't quit on me now, girl!

Then it was time! 10-9-8-7-6-5-4-3-2-1! And we were off... holding hands, smiling, moving to the right to let others pass us. And she asked me where the colors were. I explained we had to run/walk a bit to get to the first color station. So we did. And there it was! The music, the blue arch, and the powder! She was so excited, she grabbed my hand, and we ran through it... we made it out and she was laughing. She loved it! My Gracie loved having blue powder thrown all over her. Who knew?! We got to stop and take pictures often because it was just a fun run, no timing to worry about, and nobody "won" (another thing I had to explain to her)... which was good because then the pressure was off her to go fast.

So we ran a bit more before the orange arch appeared. She started wimpering a bit because she thought we went through it because a wind had blown an orange fog over us until I explained it was around the next bend (the course winded in and out of itself)... so we started in on the orange station and some young kid (a volunteer) threw orange powder right in her FACE. Uh oh! She was about to cry, but we made it through, got over to the side, and assessed the situation. I explained he wasn't trying to hurt her and probably threw it in her face on accident (nice save, Mom!)

She recovered well from that, then started crying. Her toes were hurting her. She was walking slowly and having a hard time. We got to the water station, and I offered a piggy back ride. She declined everything I offered, including taking her shoes off and walking in socks. 3.1 miles is a long way for a little kid! I was being so sensitive to her and trying to figure out how to keep it fun. She was convinced the next two colors weren't coming, so when we finally saw them, it was reassuring to her.

And that's when I noticed we were right by the port-a-potties again! Our car! The jogger! I asked her if she wanted me to get the stroller and she said, "Yes." She had been trying to be brave and strong by not changing anything, maybe she was worried about what I'd think, but that stroller was a lifesaver. We cut across the lines, made it to the car, took her shoes off, and got the stroller with the flat tire. We raced back into line and finished the run with the yellow and pink colors strewn all over us and crossed that finish line with smiles! She got out of the stroller after the race and played with the blue powder they gave us for the after party. We got some fun pictures, then joined the crowd for the big powder party. She hid in the jogger for that, then we left. It was close to 11:00am when we started leaving the parking lot. That sweet, brave girl fell asleep faster than I could count to 10.

She woke up at the gas station about an hour later with a big smile and bright eyes talking about how much she loved that color run with me. A day later, she's still talking about how much fun she had. I think that was a huge memory-making moment for both of us.

Next time we'll bring the whole family. And bigger shoes.

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Happy New Year 2013!

I didn't keep up with the blog like I wanted to in 2012, and I won't say I'll do any better in 2013, but here's a start! :)

So much happened in 2012! We thought it was going to be a quiet year, ha!

The highlights are:
Fischer graduated, we bought two horses! :), Barry broke his T12 vertebrae (horse) and had back surgery, Gracie broke her wrist (other horse and first cast in our family!), the girls did gymnastics for a few months, Chloe considered karate for 1/2 second, Micah played soccer, we returned to homeschooling, my mom and sister surprised me for my 35th birthday, and Fischer moved to Seattle! 

I've posted about my struggles with food addiction in the past, and although I had some slip-ups, I'm happy to report that I weighed in 10 pounds lighter at the end of the year! It was hard to gain weight back after a 22 pound loss, but I have to celebrate the victory rather than focus on the negative.

I'm also happy that I ended 2012 (and am starting 2013) on the right foot. I completed 10 miles in the last 5 days of the year, and did 5 miles today! I am so happy to be part of the Moms Run This Town (MRTT) running club because they motivate me to get up and out, even in 32 degree weather :)

On that note, here are my goals for 2013. There is a lot of healthy stuff in store for me. I'm working on physical, mental, and spiritual health!

- Pray daily!
- Read Doctrine & Covenants w/study guide (a book of scripture that I need further depth and understanding about)... started today! The first 42 books coordinate with my 40-day juice fast!
- 40-day juice fast (with a group): Begins 1/3, ends 2/12, then I'll continue my path on a PLANT STRONG lifestyle.
- Los Angeles Color Run (5k), 2/2
- Return to school 2/4, and stick with it!!!!
- MRTT 12athon challenge (6 miles on the 12th of each month)
- Fontana half marathon, 6/1
- Run/walk at least 500 miles total (11 per week) as part of the MRTT 500/1000 mile challenge
- Exercise the horses 3 times per week (10 minutes each)

All this on top of homeschooling the kids and being the Primary chorister :) It sounds like a lot, but some of it goes hand in hand with others. I'm really looking forward to seeing how many goals I can reach, and what I don't will continue into 2014.

I've been easing into my juice fast by drinking 1-2 juices per day and sticking with the plant-based whole foods otherwise. I'm also walking/jogging every day except Sunday. I really have so much more energy the last few days. I hope this is how I'll continue to feel! I know it will be challenging and very difficult at times, but this is when I hope to grow closer to the Lord by turning to prayer and scripture study. My goal is to rid my body from all its toxins, change my tastebuds by detoxing from addicting foods and substances (sugar, caffeine, etc.), and be able to lose some weight as I transition to my new lifestyle of eating only plant-strong whole foods. 

These are the items of motivation for me to go completely whack-a-do off animal products (all of them!) 

Forks Over Knives
Engine 2 Diet 
Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead
A facebook group dedicated to a 40-day juice fast, (aka "reboot")
and MRTT for my exercising

Happy New Year!




Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Two years!

This post is a few weeks late, but since it's on my mind, I thought I'd write about it :)

I saw a "Family Circle" comic today that made me think of our adoption process. It said, "We came from Mommy's tummy, but Joseph was adopted so he came from his mommy's heart." So true.

On November 5, 2010 we committed to adopt Micah. This time of year was exciting, nerve-wracking, and emotional for us. We had so much to do to bring our new son home. We were deep in prayer and figuring out the finances, as well as filling out endless forms to complete our first "paper pregnancy." Some days throughout that 6 months I wondered if we'd ever really get to meet our new son, others I would just cry endlessly because I wanted him in my arms so badly, yet there he was half a world away stuck in a dark, cold orphanage (at least that's how I pictured it), others I thought there was no way to gather all the paperwork needed (I literally fought forces to get signatures on some of those forms!) I cried A LOT more during this process than any pregnancy, and my heart physically hurt for my boy. I had NO updates on him at all during the 6 months before we got to Ukraine. I didn't know if he was okay, I didn't know if somehow he might know we were coming for him. I prayed that the Lord would prepare his heart for us. It was an emotional roller coaster and harder than any pregnancy I've had (I've had 6! Four babies and two miscarriages).

The only thing we had were four pictures from one day of his life, a couple baby pictures that belonged to another boy but we were told were Micah's, and one that we just weren't sure if it was Micah because he looked SO SAD!
Then: Jackson Golden and Micah Ray, July 7, 2010 (both were 2 years old).
Both went home with their forever families within weeks of each other in the summer of 2011. 

Happy all the time!

Cute little teeth!

This is the picture that captured our hearts. This ONE picture let us know that Micah was our son!
January 2011 - I knew in my heart it was him, but this picture haunted me because he didn't have the same light in his eyes.








Then finally, on May 21, 2011, I got to hold our son for the first time! He jumped over that hut wall like he'd known me forever! This was our first moment. I was crying if you can't tell. There's a good photo of him with Barry too, but I can't find it on this computer :/

May 21, 2011 - Our first moment

And now, here we were are just a little over two years from the day we found out about this complete stranger that God had prepared for our family. What a lucky family we are! He is such an amazing little boy, so full of life and laughter, so full of love. He legally became Micah Charles Ray on June 21, 2011, and I brought him home on July 6, 2011 to our waiting family. What a day! What an adventure! 


And here is our little man at 4 1/2 years old. All ready for his second Christmas in America, with his forever family :)







I love having a family!!!!


Well I said HE was ready... none of the rest of us were in this photo :) A perfect picture of a
totally imperfect family with all the love in our hearts to give the children God sent to us to
raise. We are the lucky ones, truly. I only wish Fischer and Morgan could have been at this photo shoot!







Saturday, November 17, 2012

Halloween with Mickey Mouse!

On October 12th, we splurged with the littles and took them to Mickey's Trick-or-Treat party this year. We went two years ago when it was at California Adventure, but this year it was at Disneyland! The tickets were a fraction of the regular ticket price. We had limited hours, but we got to ride all the rides from 4-12pm. We had so much fun :) We even took one of the kids' babysitters with us to help watch them so we could go on a few rides together (we ended up only going on Space Mountain together) :)

And we got TONS of candy! We still have some left in fact :)

On the tram to the park!

Halloween time!!!

Planning out the route :)



Mommy with Buzz Lightyear
All the kids


Micah's first time to Disneyland!! :)





He loved the teacups


I'm the king of the world!




Dr. Gracie

They had a great time :-)


Ghost Mickey

Us going on our favorite ride

Annie's 3rd birthday (out of order)

Our sweet Annie Bug turned 3 on September 4th. I didn't realize I hadn't blogged about her party yet, oops!



Chloe

Gracie

Micah

Jellybean 

Tyler

Kids enjoying the clown show




Funny face on the birthday girl


Intrigued!

Our good friends, Ray & Christina


Pretty Chance


Fischer and Joey

She finally decided to get her face painted :)


Pretty birthday girl



The crew


Having Jellybean do Annie's party was the best decision! She was so much fun, and all the kids loved her!

So lucky; Grandma Mary flew from Texas for the occasion ;)

With big brother, Fischer

Precious!

Twinkle toes






I love our baby girl so much. She is so sweet and happy. She lights up the room when she enters and makes me wish for more babies just like her!!! :)

Annie's favorite things:
School
Dollies
Sweety Bear Ray (the stuffed bear Fischer made at Build-a-Bear)
Fishing with Daddy
Cuddling with Mommy
Playing with her sisters and Micah "buddy boy"
Jellybean the Clown!