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Sunday, July 3, 2011
It was the shower head!
I reluctantly gave Micah a bath this morning. After his scream fest the first night I wasn't really sure how it would go. Most of the bathtubs in Ukraine have a shower hose on them, so I used that the first night. This morning I just drew an old fashioned bath with bubbles. He was very nervous, so we just did one step at a time until he was calm. Finally I got him seated and he relaxed! I gave him a washcloth and he was all about it after that. It was like night and day... until I washed his hair and scrubbed behind his ears. I really wonder if this sweet boy has ever had a real bath. Then I calmed him down again and he played and played and played until he was wrinkled. He got so mad at me when I took him out. I've heard his sad whine, his painful cry, his scared cry, and now his mad cry. It didn't take him long to calm down with lots of hugs and kisses though.
I would say he's adjusting quite well and he can't wait for his next bath!
He's so cute & he looks so different to me. Taller, Stronger, Happier! I'm glad you're getting a few days to really bond with him as mother & son. 24/7 bonding, I mean. Hopefully the flight in 3 days, yay, will be mostly smooth!!!
Micah looks like after all that he really felt good he is so cute, there will be alot of new adjustments for him but he will be ok because he knows that you love him
We've been happily married since 2005. We love to have lots of fun with our family and travel. We're goofballs at heart and are grateful to have found each other to be eternal companions and best friends.
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Adoption Timeline for Micah
Friday, 11/5/10 - Committed to adopting sweet Micah! :) Monday, 11/8 - Mailed applications to RR and homestudy agency. Thursday, 11/11 - Partners for Adoption approved our application! Tuesday, 12/7 - Physicals Wednesday 12/8 - Passport appointments Monday 12/20 - First visit with social worker Wednesday 12/22 - Mailed 13 pages to Secretary of State to get apostilled. Friday, 12/24 - Received passports! Tuesday, 12/28 - Final visit with SW (we love her!) Thursday, 12/30 - Kids' physicals Wednesday, 1/5/11 - Homestudy report completed by SW Thursday, 1/6 - FedEx'd first set of apostilled papers to EE! :) Monday, 1/10 - CSPs and POAs arrived safely in EE! :) Tuesday, 1/11 - Homestudy approved by PfA Wednesday, 1/19 - Homestudy approved by RR Thursday, 1/27 - Received notarized HS reports and licenses!!! :)
Friday, 1/28 - FedEx'd the I-600A application to USCIS. Monday, 3/7 - Biometrics appt set for 4/4 Monday, 3/14 - Walked in to the ASC and had biometrics done three weeks ahead of appointment schedule :) Tuesday, 3/22 - "GOLDEN TICKET" received! Thursday, 3/24 - Went to Sacramento to get final apostilles and FedEx'd the "beast" to EE. Monday, 3/28 - Dossier arrived in EE. Thursday, 3/31 - Annie and Fischer's passport appointments. Friday, 4/8 - Received Annie's passport in one week! Thursday, 4/14 - Dossier submitted to SDA :D Wednesday, 4/27 - Received SDA appt for May 19 at 11am. Monday, 5/16 - Left for Micah's country. Thursday, 5/19 - SDA appt. Friday, 5/20 - Received SDA referral to meet Micah :) Monday, 5/23 - Met another boy who we were told was Micah... (read http://rays-r-us.blogspot.com/2011/05/it-would-only-happen-to-us.html), and then got to hold Micah for a few minutes since he was outside too. Thursday, 5/26 - 2nd SDA appt at 3pm, Micah's 3rd birthday Friday, 5/27 - Received referral and got paperwork started at orphanage (learned all about Micah's history) Saturday, 5/28 - Officially met Micah, visited with him for four hours :) Monday, 6/6 - Found out court date. Friday, 6/10 - COURT! Saturday, 6/11 - Headed home for 10-day waiting period. Monday, 6/20 - Shelly returned to Micah's country.
Tuesday, 6/21 - Micah is officially our son! Thursday, 6/23 - Court decree obtained late in the day. Friday, 6/24 - Got Micah's new birth certificate and tax ID# Saturday, 6/25 - Passport office, attempt number 1 Monday and Tuesday - UA Holidays Wednesday, 6/29 - Passport office, attempt number 2 (success) Thursday, 6/30 - GOTCHA DAY! Embassy intake appointment Friday, 7/1 - Medical appt & picked up passport late in the day Monday, 7/4 - USA Holiday (Embassy closed) Tuesday, 7/5 - Final embassy appointment (got his visa!) Wednesday, 7/6/11 - ARRIVED AT HOME, FINALLY!!
3 comments:
He's so cute & he looks so different to me. Taller, Stronger, Happier! I'm glad you're getting a few days to really bond with him as mother & son. 24/7 bonding, I mean. Hopefully the flight in 3 days, yay, will be mostly smooth!!!
Micah looks like after all that he really felt good he is so cute, there will be alot of new adjustments for him but he will be ok because he knows that you love him
That comment was from me Shelly, Mom
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